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I find it interesting that most people do not point to a healthy relationship. I have heard that women want only your partner, or want to find her true love, or will not, with the man of her dreams will be happy.
While there is nothing wrong with the substance of these claims, I think that remains an important part of saving these desires fulfilled. What is the difference obvious?
What is missing is the "how" of the process wouldtheir fulfillment of desire. How do I create happiness with my partner? How do I create true love? How do I win the man of my dreams?
The answer to all these "how" questions is the basis for creating the foundation for a healthy relationship. There are three fundamental keys to grow and / or to attract and create a healthy relationship:
1) Emotional Independence
2) Be True to Yourself
3) Be honest, who you are and what you feelWant
The first key, emotional independence, is often overlooked by both sexes. Without this construct permeating the dynamics, it is likely that, as you can easily fall into an unhealthy dependence, which often leads to co-dependence. In this state, actually draw from each other.
Often brings out the worst in each other and then for him actually aggravated keeps low and feeling. It 'a vicious circle, if you have felt the need of others to meet your needs,or both suffer devastating consequences.
Emotional independence, unless they charge someone else for your happiness. You create them for themselves and the right partner to complement its not taking things for you. You take care yourself and out of positive energy of love. So that in fact follow a role model for your husband to develop his emotional independence.
They come together to make your self, and share yourFeelings in a healthy and save the emotional disturbance to the therapist's couch or the job alone. How to find a clever way to verbally express what you feel. You can clarify the issues, with the help of others, until he is in touch with your inner state.
Then there is presented clearly to your partner, making the understanding of the dynamics. This is a mature interdependence where each person as an individual, who is supportive and seerelationship developing.
Many women seem to reach this state, unless they are in a relationship, and much debate as soon as they are. But I can not emphasize enough the importance of achieving and maintaining a solid base of emotional independence.
Stay tuned, the next article which will the other two buttons to help a healthy relationship.
In Loving Light,
Dr. Pamela
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